The second part of my suggestions on ending bullying

Last post, I talked about how newer parents have brought an increase in tolerance, however obliquely, of child bullying.  As I mentioned before, the concern for me is the school kids themselves.  I, to be honest, have never been one to just consider children to be innocent of all doings.

This is especially true now given our overall access to social media.  None the less, social media can and is used responsibly.  Here is what I think could be done to alter these problems with these issues.

First and foremost, the schools need to begin educating students on how to properly use social networking at the schools and outside the schools.  I remember when it was customary for public service assemblies and/or films to be  shown to address social issues.  This provided at least a temporary sense of community when all of us needed to be together for something to learn about our lives.

Secondly, there was once a time when schools were allowed to use a "Scared Straight" sort of event that showed students the consequences of bad actions.  Although it is not akin to physical criminality yet; perhaps as part of potential settlements yet to come, students that were accused of bullying others need to be publically called out and be needed to answer for their actions.  I of course would not want to take this idea too far; that is to say, have the bullies be bullied.  Yet, I would think a public outing would suffice.

One other idea to be considered involves parents.  Since the school districts only are responsible for the well being of children to a certain point; the parents and extended family need to be involved in looking after their children in what they will doing any matter related to fellow students and people their age.  Of course, the level of degree to which these oversights on children will be needed depends on the child's behavior.  I think the more likely the kid becomes a bully; the more intense the monitoring of the child needs to be. 

It is difficult, admittedly, to have the answers be given that will please everyone.  In truth, it would be much simpler if many of these school kids would behave correctly at all times.  None the less, preventative measures must be taken in nearly all means to be certain bullying ends; and as well, to put an end to needing to settle accounts by means of law.  Feel free to comment on these ideas.  I will certainly respond.

Best wishes to all,

Robert

PS.  I plan on blogging at least one post a day.  What is on my mind, may well be on this page.